Thursday, September 29, 2011

How to Make a Conversation With a Girl - 3 Things To Know

Here's how you can learn how to make a conversation with a girl, explained in a simple 3 step method. These tricks are easy and can be developed with time and practice and a little effort.

1. Develop self confidence.

The more you talk to people, the more confident you'll get when it comes to learning how to make a conversation with a girl. It's not as difficult as most people think, but it does take time and practice to get good at making interesting conversation.

Self confidence is a double benefit thing. The more you have, the more people will want to talk to you, and the easier it will get to talk to them. Obviously you can see how this would benefit you when you're approaching women.

You can also develop self confidence by leading a life where you're really happy, so set small goals for yourself that you can attain, as they'll give you good mood boosts.

2. Practice, practice, practice.

It's not gonna just get easy to talk to women overnight; you've got to practice your conversation skills as much as possible. You should be talking to women, men, old people, young people, fat people, thin people, basically anyone and everyone you can. The more you practice conversation, the easier it will get.

Go to bookstores, social gatherings, business meetings, anything you can. And when you're there, just make it a habit to get into a small conversation about the weather or whatever is on your mind, as long as it's a neutral topic (avoid, say, politics).

3. Try not to care what she thinks.

A big part of learning how to make a conversation with a girl is to stop caring what she thinks. The less you're concerned with her opinion of you, the easier it will be to talk to her - and ultimately have dating success with her.

This is something that also comes with self confidence, and good conversation skills. So continue building your people skills, and at the same time, work on building self confidence, so that when you approach a girl, you won't be so concerned with her opinion of you.

In the end, if all you can do is say to yourself before you approach a girl, "I dont' care what she thinks; I have a good opinion of myself" you'll be worlds ahead.

Remember: build self confidence, practice talking to people, and try not to care what girls think of you. The more you adopt these three things, the easier it will get to have success with women.

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